Just A Lil Mo'

This is more than just a story….this is my LIFE!

Dear 40,

and for sure, this black ain't cracking.Mo'- I never knew what you would look like when you came. I didn't even know if I would be ready. It seems like 40 was so old when I was 20. Now that... Continue Reading →

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That One Time…

My life was now consumed with the goodness of positive affirmations and thoughts because every day, he poured in my cup. There was a time when I fell in love, and I didn't even know it. I woke up one... Continue Reading →

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Daddy Issues

Understanding how your daddy issues play into your romantic relationships is the most self-aware concept a woman can do for herself.  I never really understood how this affected my romantic relationships until I went to therapy. Most people don't know... Continue Reading →

The Power of Setting Goals, Believing in Yourself, and Achieving Your Dreams!

Life is a journey filled with dreams and aspirations. Whether it's pursuing a successful career, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, or cultivating meaningful relationships, setting goals is the compass that guides us toward our desired destination. Yet, setting goals alone is... Continue Reading →

Finding Purpose

Finding purpose within myself has always been a very challenging but transformative journey for me. Being a single mom put me in a place where I have to make things happen despite the help I get or don't get from... Continue Reading →

Conditional Love VS. Unconditional Love

Conditional love and unconditional love are two distinct types of love with different characteristics and implications: Conditional Love: Conditional love is love contingent upon certain conditions or requirements being met by the person receiving the love. In this type of... Continue Reading →

Is Love Starting to be Conditional?

  Several factors can influence the perception of love as becoming more conditional in the dating world: Technology and Dating Apps: The prevalence of dating apps and online platforms can contribute to a more transactional approach to dating. With numerous... Continue Reading →

Embracing Love: A Journey of Finding Love as a Black Woman Over 40

  Love knows no boundaries and certainly doesn't discriminate against age, race, or background. As a black woman over 40, I have embarked on a journey to find love that has been both challenging and rewarding. In a society that... Continue Reading →

“Creating Healthy Boundaries”

    Creating boundaries is crucial when dealing with individuals who don't have your best interests at heart. Boundaries serve as guidelines that define what's acceptable or unacceptable behavior, actions, or treatment toward you is. Here are a few ways... Continue Reading →

I’m not in love…YET, but I’m aware!

My brain chemistry has been altered for the last four weeks, and it has been the most refreshing experience ever. You never know when you need fresh air until you get it. Dating, in some aspects, can be the most... Continue Reading →

  I know we haven't had a formal introduction, but I'm Monique, and it's lovely to meet you. We may have hesitated about the meeting, but I wanted an initial link that we would both appreciate. I don't know your... Continue Reading →

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